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As a leader, it's important to recognize that emotions and thoughts are interconnected. Emotions can influence your thoughts and vice versa. By understanding the causes and impacts of your feelings, you can become more self-aware and better equipped to manage them.
Here's an action plan to help you connect your emotions and thoughts:
By connecting your emotions and thoughts, you'll become more self-aware and better equipped to manage your emotions as a leader. You'll be able to recognize triggers, analyze your feelings, and challenge negative thoughts.
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