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Wk 36 - Offer Feedback and Dialogue

Published about 1 year ago • 1 min read

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Offer Feedback and Dialogue

Whether you're a leader, colleague, or friend, providing honest and constructive feedback is crucial to building and maintaining relationships.

To offer constructive feedback, keep the following in mind:

  1. When giving feedback, focus on the specific behavior or action rather than the person. For example, instead of saying, "You're lazy," say, "I noticed that you missed your deadline."
  2. Provide specific examples of the behavior or action you're referring to. This will help the person understand what you're referring to and take action to improve.
  3. Instead of pointing out the problem, offer suggestions for improvement. This shows that you're invested in helping the person succeed.
  4. Use "I" statements instead of "you" to avoid appearing accusatory or confrontational. For example, instead of saying, "You need to work on your communication skills," say, "I think we could improve our communication by..."
  5. Address issues as soon as possible to prevent them from escalating or becoming more challenging.
  6. Be open to receiving feedback from others and use it as an opportunity to learn and improve.

By offering positive and constructive feedback, you'll build trust, strengthen relationships, and help others reach their full potential.

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